Dear mom

It’s almost Mother’s Day so I’m thinking about my own mom, other mothers, and about being a mom (no, no–I’m not pregnant). I love my mom. She has done things that take massive courage–courage that I’m not even sure I have. She trusted my father, and left her culture, her language, her people of origin, … Continue reading Dear mom

Coming back

I have such an on again-off again relationship with my blog. Sometimes, I feel like it’s that guy I’m dating that I feel lukewarm about. Or that networking book I don’t feel like studying during sunny weekends. Or that painting I started that feels blah. I haven’t completely divined why, but there’s a tension with … Continue reading Coming back

A super break!

So after rediscovering such wonders as early happy hour and siestas after quitting my job, I decided to take a break from blogging. Instead, I spent the summer exploring and discovering the world of having a really good time. I visited old and new places, and spent quality time with people I care about. And … Continue reading A super break!

Rule breaker

Wow. It’s been a while. And I’ve read somewhere that I’m breaking some blogging rule by saying that. But over time, I’ve realized that some rules are there because they’re necessary–they really do protect you and the people around you. Fake rules, on the other hand, are attempts made by others to control you because what … Continue reading Rule breaker